COMMUNICATION AND MANIPULATION IN COMMUNION
The article examines alternative ways of interpersonal communication: communication and manipulation. The author finds the main factors that determine the type of communication: the balance of the social roles of partners, moral and psychological portrait of the partners, the ability of partners to overcome the technical barriers of communication, personality differences between them and above all differences in outlook and orientation, beliefs, as well as differences in personal levels of development of partners, as well as differences in the social status of partners. The main factor is the intentionality of partners - the balance of their interests and objectives in relation to each other. Communicative intentionality involves moral, personal attitude to a partner when he acts for me purpose and when I set the goal of achieving a balance of mutual interests and joint efforts to achieve common goals. Manipulative intentionality involves proprietary, impersonal attitude to the partner when I strive to realize the personal interests at the expense of the partner, to use it in their own selfish personal gain at the expense of its aims and interests.